i got mommy brain....help! i need advice!

[theundomesticmommy]

so...i totally forgot my best friends birthday. 

read about it here.  http://www.umommy.ca

this is something i've never done before.  i want to blame being all wrapped in with feeling sorry for myself b/c my husband kind of failed my very first mother's day, but i think there's more.  ever since i became pregnant and had my baby, my brain is like mush.  and i can't use that as an excuse b/c she's not a mommy yet.  she's not on facebook, so i don't have that constant reminder of her birthday and she's not the kind to talk about her birthday weeks before it arrives. 

what should i do?  got any advice on how to make it up to her?  i'm a SAHM so i don't have a ton of cash to buy her something uber fabulous.

thanks! 

the undomestic mommy and worst friend EVER!

[PeaceLoveMommy]

Sounds like you're only human momma!!!! I know you still feel really bad. How about writing a post, basically saying all the things you want to say directly to her.  get a clay pot (cheap ones) spray paint it and put some flowers in it or her favorite candy or something.

true friends understand, just explain!!

Hope that helps

[leslie512]

Yep...mommy brain! LOL Been there...done that (daily!)

I agree that you should just explain. She'll understand.

Good luck!

[theundomesticmommy]

thanks ladies! 

she says she's not upset or mad, but i can tell she is.  she's disappointed.  and i would be too if she had forgotten my birthday.  i'm such a bum friend!