Ban on unmarried adoptions cleared for Ark. ballot
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« on: August 25, 2008, 03:12:15 PM »

 oh my http://news.yahoo.com/s/ap/20080825/ap_on_re_us/gay_foster_ban

 By ANDREW DeMILLO, Associated Press Writer
 38 minutes ago
 
A proposal aimed at effectively banning gays and lesbians from becoming foster or adoptive parents was cleared Monday to appear on this fall's ballot in Arkansas.
The measure would prohibit unmarried couples living together from fostering or adopting children, and Arkansas doesn't allow gays to marry or recognize gay marriages conducted elsewhere.
Secretary of State Charlie Daniels certified the proposed initiated act for the Nov. 4 ballot after verifying that the Arkansas Family Council Action Committee had submitted 85,389 valid signatures of registered voters. Supporters needed to turn in at least 61,974 valid signatures.
"Arkansas needs to affirm the importance of married mothers and fathers," Family Council President Jerry Cox said. "We need to publicly affirm the gold standard of rearing children whenever we can. The state standard should be as close to that gold standard of married mom and dad homes as possible."
The Family Council campaign is a response to a 2006 Arkansas Supreme Court decision striking down a state policy that specifically banned gays and lesbians from becoming foster parents.
The ballot measure would take the place of a state policy that currently bars unmarried couples living together from serving as foster parents.
The measure faces the threat of a lawsuit from groups who say that it unfairly discriminates against unmarried couples and limits the number of foster and adoptive homes available for children.
Arkansas Families First is campaigning against the measure and has said it plans to file a lawsuit to keep it from appearing on the November ballot. Debbie Willhite, a lead consultant for the group, said last week the group has found numerous signatures that should have been rejected by the state as invalid and that the group also plans to challenge the constitutionality of the measure.
Attorney General Dustin McDaniel opposes the proposed initiated act but said last week that he was confident it could survive a legal challenge.
Cox said the Family Council will rely on support from the same network of churches that helped it pass a constitutional amendment banning gay marriage in 2004.
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« Reply #1 on: August 25, 2008, 03:15:23 PM »

When I first read this, I thought it said Alabama. Clearly I had that state on my mind. Anywhooooooo
Seriously... there are so many children in state custody, if they find a loving home with a single mom or gay/lesbian couple - should we stop them from being loved?
My neighbors are the best guys ever. They are partners. And they want to adopt. They are a loving, committed couple. A choice that I may not understand in full or live, but who are we to say they can't adopt and now in Arkansas single women can't adopt either if they pass this? That is just so wrong. I just found out this is also the case in like 13 states. WOW
WRONG!
Clearly this is just my opinion.
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« Reply #2 on: August 26, 2008, 08:32:00 AM »

Em,

It's my opinion too. While I know there are screenings for adoption, I've seen kids placed in homes where I feel bad for the kid. I've seen divorce where the child was adopted. I've seen very dysfunctional marital relationships with adopted kids. So, to say all of this is better because one is male and one is femaile just makes my head spin.
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« Reply #3 on: August 27, 2008, 02:14:04 PM »

Yep. I agree.
I can't talk about it on a public board except to say I have knowledge of an adoptive mom that gave back a child rather than finalizing an adoption because the baby had learning disabilities. But the state she lives in did allow her to adopt another child (who apparently was not LD)... and I thought that was bad.
I happen to know that my neighbors would take a child under any circumstances and love that child as their own. That they are a gay couple should NOT come into play. I know lots of heterosexuals that are questionable as parents.... We all do!
It's silly.
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« Reply #4 on: August 27, 2008, 08:08:12 PM »

I am happy that there are others who feel as I do.  All children need is love and security, and if that can be supplied by a single mom or dad, or partners, then it should be allowed.  Kids being put from one foster home to another is not the answer. 

It seems to me that most states think more about the same sex partner issue, than in thorough screening of foster homes.

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« Reply #5 on: August 27, 2008, 10:17:16 PM »

There are children that need adopting and now they are trying to say homosexuals cannot.  i might not agree with their lifestyle choice but I do think they should get the same rights as everyone else.  I believe if it is a loving stable, secure home you should be able to adopt whether you are single, Gay, etc.  There are marriages that are unstable and children are brought into them.  Just because you are married does not mean it is a better home. 
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« Reply #6 on: August 28, 2008, 09:27:43 AM »

Seriously...
I would love to adopt a girl after my divorce is final - in Texas you have to wait a year after divorce or life changing experience, death of a partner, etc... but I think I'll be just as good of a mom to an adopted child as I am to my own.
Being married does NOT make you a great parent. And being homosexual does not make you a BAD parent.
They are silly...
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« Reply #7 on: August 31, 2008, 10:29:35 PM »

That makes me so angry! I can't believe that... actually, I can and that just makes me sad.
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