Are Any Of You ReMarried?

[emsplace]

If so WHY? lol
OMG I am so disgruntled I can not even tell you! I can not imagine ever going through all of this again. Everything I gave up, the people who I lost in my life because they didn't like him or me with him....
And now it is over.... and what do I have.... My son - THANK GOD! That is awesome.... but where am I?
UGH UGH and more UGH.

OK... I'm just venting.
But I am curious.... why did you take the chance again? I don't think I ever will.

[grocerymama]

I'm remarried! And I love him.
I got married young the first time to someone who turned out to be a control freak.
I don't consider my husband my second - he's my husband period. When I got married - it wasn't my second marriage. It was my marriage to my husband.
My ex and I don't talk at all. We have custody arranged with my daughter. And we live on other sides of the country. He's not apart of my life at all. I only see him twice a year when I pick up my daughter (she spends summers with him) and that's it.

I know you are in the thick of things now, but time does heal all wounds. And once it's all over - you'll be amazed at what opens up for you!

[emsplace]

Well, though I can not imagine it, I am happy that you are happily married. I waited till I was 35 to marry. Had my son at 40. Now I'm 44...
UGH I'm too old to date.

[Audrey]

Though I'm not married, I have dated over the years. I don't want to say never, but in order for me to marry again, it would have to be the most amazing man in the world.

[newmomblogger]

44 is young!  I am remarried too and have finally found the man of my dreams.  However it took lots of work alone with a therapist to figure out WHY I made the choice in men I did through my past.  Sounds so cliche, but let me tell you...past male role models and their traits haunt you later on!!  Things you are comfortable with are so many times the things and traits you resent in people...

So many people stay for the kids...I endured 3 years of seperate and couples counseling because I couldn't ever imagine falling into the stereotype of "single mom" or "divorced mom", or worse yet hand my children the label of "children of divorce". 

I promise you that after you've done the soul searching it will so be worth it - and no one deserves to live miserable or even mediocre when life is so short!

www.lifeistooshortnottoshare.blogspot.com

[emsplace]

Thank you.
I can't imagine it. But thanks for posting it.
Life after divorce... that is daunting.
Not that I would take my life... but I can't place what I think it would BE like.
em

[CreativeJunkie]

I'm remarried! To my soulmate.

I NEVER thought I would marry again. But I did! And it's so much better this time around.

It was scary, I admit it. But he was divorced as well and we both approached our marriage with a lot more common sense and trusted commitment than we had our prior marriages.

[ArmySister]

I'm not remarried, but I would love to find that person.....

My problem - No place to find anyone to even date....my life is work, home, ball practice and games, and more work and home....hmmm....That's it...

I'm not opposed to the idea though....after 6 years alone...I would LOVE to have someone to share my thoughts, dreams, love with.....

[MichelleB]

I am recently a divorced single mom but I do believe lightning could strike twice and I could find Mr. Right (again), don't give up!

[MichelleB]

Hey just wanted to update you all! I just sold my engagement ring to http://www.idonowidont.com last that my ex husband gave me. I just really wanted to have some closure from the whole ordeal. Hopefully I can find a nicer guy someday.

[emsplace]

Good for you!
I am glad you got your closure.
Good luck.
Em

[Audrey]

Hey Em,

How are things going? You two still in the same house? I know that's got to be tough on you.

[emsplace]

Well,
to be honest, we are working through and trying to figure out if he can stay in counseling and help himself get through some things and if we can then go to marraige counseling and I can learn to trust/forgive him!
I want to be able to...
and I don't want to divorce, I am just NOT sure it is going to last/work... but I guess it won't hurt to try - again!
thanks for asking.
em